Should men not have to pay for ?

Harriet Harman the government's "Minister for Women" (there is no counterpart "Minister for Men", by the way) has said that she "doesn't want men to pay for ". Harman is a known feminist, so what gives? No self-respecting man, or men generally, would pay for anyway and similarly nor should women. The whole idea of -for-pay is demeaning. Would you agree or not with this proposition?